Why Tolerance Has Failed.

Whether it is the arguments over marriage equality, the rampant Islamaphobia or the anti-emigration sentiment in our country it is becoming very clear that at its very heart tolerance has failed. When we think about it for a moment it should not be a surprise, tolerance has been doomed from the beginning because tolerance simply does not go far enough.

Essential to the divisiveness of the topics mentioned above is the labeling of someone else as the other. Tolerance allows this to continue to happen; we tolerate the people who are different then us. They are the other but that is ok. Tolerance fails right there, we must instead of seeing people as the other, see them as essentially human and valuable. It is this much more radical approach that is called for by the Christian faith.

We are called to see the image of God all around us, particularly in people we come into contact with each day. What this means is recognizing that all have the divine spark, divine value. This goes far beyond simply being ok with differences; this means celebrating differences, seeing those differences as an essential part of what it means to be human. It means breaking out of the binary world we have all been taught to believe in.

This becomes all the more challenging when we consider those we disagree with on the deepest level. We are however called to treat them with the same respect and recognize the same divine spark within them. This is what Jesus was talking about when he called us to “Love our Enemies.” It is easy to hate when we can label people as other. It is much harder to hate when we see that divine resides in those who disagree with us as well.

The practical reality is that if we can move beyond tolerance and move to a place where we see people as worthwhile and valuable it will open the door to true conversation. We will not always agree and we may in the end continue to make each other mad, but by not labeling each other we can at least come to the table. In coming to that table maybe find more common ground than we expect on which to stand and make the world a better place.